When you first find out there is a new addition on the way, you’re bound to be excited. Even if you already have children, an impending new arrival is going to have your head spinning with joy. When you think about all the things that need to be arranged, you may quickly feel overwhelmed. Don’t despair or get stressed about it, though, because with a little careful planning and organization you’ll soon be enjoying the special few months you’ve got ahead. It’s possible to make the most of your time and stay relaxed as your due date approaches. Here are some helpful ways you can get prepared.
Understand What You Can Expect During the Birth
Giving birth can be a stressful experience, but it will help if you know a little about how it’s going to proceed. This applies even if you have experienced it previously, as procedures and methods can often change. For those of you who are about to be first-time mums, the prospect of giving birth can be very intimidating. The temptation is to forget about it until the day arrives. However, experts advise soon to be mums to learn about the birth ahead of schedule. It will make you a more active participant, and the outcome will be better.
There’s a wealth of information available online. However, taking birth classes is certain to be more relevant. You will learn about the different stages of labor, the type of pain management available, the equipment used during delivery, the different ways of giving birth available and breathing techniques. You might even get to visit your local delivery hospital and take a good look around.
Talk to Your Partner
As well as being there for you during labor, your partner will also be required to play their part when you bring your baby home. It’s important you both talk about each other’s expectations and come to some kind of agreement. Not knowing what you are each expecting of each other can lead to serious conflicts; something you don’t want to be experiencing in those first weeks of parenthood. Try and work things out as much as you can ahead of time. This new arrival is going to turn your world upside down. You both need to be prepared and willing to support each other.
Ask Friends and Family About Their Experiences
You probably know at least a handful of mums and dads who have gone through a similar experience. Don’t be afraid or embarrassed to ask for their advice. Is there anything they wished they’d done differently? What books did they read, if any? Are there any local groups of activities for new parents? Your experience of childbirth and parenthood will not be the same as anyone else’s, but it will help to reduce the stress if you find out about certain things in advance.
Prepare Siblings and Pets
The present occupants of your home might not take too kindly to the new arrival, so take some time to get them accustomed to the idea. You’ve got a few months to set the stage, so make sure you do it properly. Pretend play with younger family members may be helpful. Your local hospital may run sibling classes. As well as preparing your kids for the new arrival, line someone up to look after them while you’re in the hospital.
It’s not just siblings that need to be prepared. Your four-legged residents may also need a period of adjustment. There are books, online articles, videos and classes that can help you with tips for getting your pet used to the new baby.
Enlist Some Help
You will definitely appreciate an extra pair of hands in those first few weeks after the delivery. You’re not a superhero mum, so don’t be shy about asking for help. Grandparents can be particularly helpful during the early days. Suggest they help with the laundry, shopping, cleaning and cooking rather than taking over the care of your new bundle of joy. It’s vital you, as new parents, spend as much time as possible bonding with your baby.
Hold a Baby Shower
Traditionally, this is something you let others organize for you. Don’t turn the offer down because you think you won’t be in the right frame of mind. Take it as an opportunity to relieve the new-parent stress. It won’t be too long before your whole life will revolve around your new addition. Take some time out and let the emphasis be on you. If you’re looking for some inspiration, there are plenty of baby shower ideas on the Pampers Website.
Plan for the Start of Labor
Have a plan in place for when labor starts. That way you won’t find yourself racing around like a headless chicken. Know who to call, where you have to go and the best time to leave. All this information can be provided by your healthcare provider. Try and register ahead of time, so you don’t have to worry about paperwork when you arrive in the hospital. Check out the parking arrangements and work out the best route. Think about who you’d like to be with you at the birth.
Stock Up
There are certain essentials you’ll need when you first come home. For example, diapers, wipes, newborn baby clothing, car seat installed, bottles, formula, nursing bras and pads. A few ready-made meals for you and your partner may also be a good idea.
Pack Your Bag
The final thing you need to worry about is packing a bag to take with you for the delivery. When labor starts, you don’t need to be rushing around worrying about packing a bag. Get things ready a few weeks before your due date. As well as the essentials such as your ID, insurance card and hospital paperwork, think about some personal items that will make your stay more comfortable. Your own pillow, slippers, music, pictures, something to read and anything else that will make you feel relaxed.
One final thought to end with is to stock up on the essential household items. Toiletries, toilet paper, frozen food, pantry staples and anything else that will mean you don’t have to worry about going to the store for a few days.
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